If a good woman leaves you, that is not enough reason to cry. Think of it this way: If you have $3.5 billion and you lose $1 dollar, would you cry? There are 3.5 billion other women on Earth. Many of them will also be good. Instead of crying, go and find another one! In fact, don’t go and find another one. Instead, go and find a better one.
Develop yourself to the extent that it is women who should cry at the thought of losing you. Stop chasing them. Go and pursue success. When you have a good command of business, coupled with self-control, and have made money your servant instead of your master, no good woman will leave you!
But when you are so clingy and needy, and always kowtowing to her, and professing love, and writing poems, and following her around like a puppy, you will make it impossible for any woman to respect you, and she will pack her kaya and look for a real man who knows that he is the head in the relationship.
There must be duality in a relationship. You are not a puppy. You are a man. Therefore, exude strength and warmth. Be in control of your emotions. Be decisive. No woman can remain sexually faithful to a man who can't control his feelings and who jumps when she snaps her fingers. She won't tell you, but in her eyes, she is in a lesbian relationship.
Develop yourself to the extent that it is women who should cry at the thought of losing you. Stop chasing them. Go and pursue success. When you have a good command of business, coupled with self-control, and have made money your servant instead of your master, no good woman will leave you!
But when you are so clingy and needy, and always kowtowing to her, and professing love, and writing poems, and following her around like a puppy, you will make it impossible for any woman to respect you, and she will pack her kaya and look for a real man who knows that he is the head in the relationship.
There must be duality in a relationship. You are not a puppy. You are a man. Therefore, exude strength and warmth. Be in control of your emotions. Be decisive. No woman can remain sexually faithful to a man who can't control his feelings and who jumps when she snaps her fingers. She won't tell you, but in her eyes, she is in a lesbian relationship.