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But as I started my career as a research assistant in physics, I started getting interested in all the "whys" of life.
As I studied and thought about various fundamental questions such as, "Why do we use money instead of promises or favors?";
"Why do we live in houses and not boats or cars?";
"Why are there usually 2-4 people in a home and not 10-20?";
"Why do we move away from home?";
"Why do we work until we're 65?"--all while getting assaulted with well-intended "encouragements" that I should make sure to open a retirement account before I was 30 and put 15% of net income into it;
that I should buy a house;
that married homeowners were more prosperous and therefore I better get married too;
that I should buy a new car;
that people would like me more if I wore a particular kind of brand clothing, and
that I would enjoy a beverage more if it came from a certain kind of bottle.
I was beginning to feel that something was wrong.
"Why is the emperor not wearing any clothes?"
I started getting an uneasy feeling that something about the world was not quite right. Nobody explained the "why."
Sure,they could explain how I should first purchase a "starter home," so I could "upgrade" later.
But nobody could or would explain why I should buy a house in the first place.
Nobody could or would explain why I should have a career, only that career development was important.
但当我开始担任物理学研究助理时,我开始对生活中的所有 “为什么 ”产生了兴趣。
在我研究和思考各种基本问题的过程中,比如 "为什么我们使用金钱而不是承诺或恩惠?
“为什么我们住在房子里,而不是船或汽车里?
“为什么一个家庭通常只有 2-4 人,而不是 10-20 人?
“为什么我们要搬离家园?”
““为什么我们要工作到 65 岁?”--与此同时,我还受到各种善意的 “鼓励”:我应该确保在 30 岁之前开设一个退休账户,并将净收入的 15%存入其中;
我应该买房;
已婚房主更富裕,因此我最好也结婚;
我应该买一辆新车;
如果我穿某种品牌的衣服,人们会更喜欢我;如果我喝某种饮料,人们会更喜欢我。
如果饮料是用某种瓶子装的,我就会更喜欢。
我开始觉得有些不对劲。
“为什么皇帝没有穿衣服?”
我开始感到不安,觉得这个世界有些东西不太对劲。没有人解释 "为什么”
当然,他们可以解释我应该先买一套 “起步房”,然后再 “升级”。
但是,没有人能够或愿意解释我为什么首先要买房子。
没有人能够或愿意解释我为什么应该拥有一份职业,只是说职业发展很重要。