Why the fuck do we tell little girls that little boys who bully them and pick on them have crushes on them? Why do we allow little boys to do treat their crushes like favorite toys they can toss around? And we say it's cute? I'm fucking appalled, this is why so many women end up in abusive relationships and think it's normal for men to mistreat them and exhibit obsessive unhealthy behaviors and it's just a way of expressing love. source